Ineffable Ontological Detanglement .: Introspective Assistance & Mental Analysis Manual
You may be told it is an inability to let it go. I can make it easier for you to get it in your head, because "inability to let it go" are words that do nothing for anybody... It is an inability to accept that this is a thing that actually happened, these are just things that actually happen these things can just actually happen, this is a thing that is just permitted by the rules of our reality.
I'm going to piss off scientists again and be a hippy dippy loopy spiritualist with my holistic medicine, but, a belief in God is what gets you through this. You have to be within the framework of a reality with a certain control, not the framework of reality where things are just randomly flying all over the place things are springing out of control you never know what's going to happen. You have to understand you don't get angry at a force of nature for destroying your houses and for killing your family, it doesn't mean you're not incredibly frustrated at the futility, it doesn't mean you don't work against this force with every fiber of your being, but you understand... This is a thing that happens. All of reality is just a thing that happens. You can't just be angry at reality. Obviously with people it's a different story, this person is not the same force of nature as the hurricane, usually, however you're within the framework of a reality where things just happen, things are always happening and it's fine.
It's best to believe in an indeliberate God, if God is doing this kind of thing deliberately it enters you into a bit a different emotional state over this is a reality where things are always happening.
Road rage is an entirely ego invested behaviour. Obviously everybody gets angry on the road no mater how ego invested, however here is where the idea of an ego offense causes the highest of snap. YOU, at ME!?
You're inside of your you space, this car is your territory, inside of your you space YOU are the one who is in control. The system all around you leaves everyone under control, they're supposed to be UNDER CONTROL. You can't see this idiot, all you can do is picture this idiot, I bet he's a bumbling ugly space retard. I bet he's not even really people. You know in these moments there is always the looming potentiality of death and you're under a lot of tension of remaining precise in your actions. Chances are this ugly space retard was so fucking high on himself he thought he just deserved to be the guy who forces entry and gets ahead of you.
Yeah that's a lot of enraging shit going on in your semi-conscious, put ego offense on top of all of that. Then put low intelligence low willpower high temperament low adherence to inherent morality rage issues on top of that and you have become a vessel of your semi-conscious guidewire aimed only at torture murder rampage of this person's entire family.